Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Thanksgiving travel, I say "No!"

Thanksgiving is great for many reasons - food, football, family, etc. - but traveling is not one of them.

For some reason, many are under the impression that Thanksgiving is like spring break - a week long holiday you still feel entitled to even though you're not in school any more.

But it's not. It's a day, folks. Just the one day.

(Some people - the "chosen ones," I call them - have the Friday after off as well, but even a long weekend does not a week-long spring break make.)

That's what makes traveling around Thanksgiving the absolute worst. Trying to cram in all the celebrating and togetherness in such a short period of time stresses people out.

For example, here is a series of texts from my friend K. flying across the country to see his family...for a day.

Text 1: "The guy sitting next to me on the plane has a playlist of all remixed Gloria Estefan dance music and it's blaring from his headphones. One of us is not going to make it to Atlanta."

Text 2: "The mother sitting across from me just told her daughter that she was going to beat her down if she didn't leave her alone. Where am i?"

Text 3: "Oh man, she just tossed her hair and it smacked me in the head. It's about to get bananas in here."

Text 4: "Sadly the mom is wearing a UT sweatshirt."

Now, while it pains me that the crazy mom is also a Longhorn - just because UT is awesome, doesn't mean it doesn't produce some crazies - it proves the point that traveling during Thanksgiving is just too much to handle. And remixed Gloria Estefan really doesn't help.

So don't go anywhere this year. Stay at home and, if you're family isn't close by, just call them. If they give you a hard time, say you wanted to save money, you'll see them at Christmas, and they can always send leftovers via FedEx.

Next, figure out how to give yourself a spring break. I can't be only one who misses that, right?

5 comments:

Mindy said...

Keep me posted on how adult spring break revival works out. I, for one, am for it!

Anonymous said...

yeah, spring break, right. I don't remember driving 18 hours with two puppies yelping in the back seat to a house where no one is allowed to touch anything and dealing with freezing rain being anywhere close to spring break. Not to mention the annual interrogation about my lack of love life, when I am going to get a management job, or the complaints about daughter in laws ever being a part of spring break. But then again, I don't remember much from my intoxicating spring breaks.
But, we do it because we have to, not because we want to.

lindsay said...

sounds to me like you're just jealous. I've been in school for so long that I look at the year in semesters. I take full advantage of my fall and spring breaks! when the day comes that I find myself no longer in school, I'll still find a way to maintain the fall/spring breaks.

lindsay said...

I've changed my mind completely. after spending 13 hours on the road today, I will never travel on a holiday again. Traffic was horrific. By the way, Louisiana desperately needs to redesign its roads. Bad traffic problems.

Matthew Danelo said...

RE: lindsay

You are right about two things.
1) I am jealous of your spring break.
2) Louisiana has awful roads.